weddings

elopements / intimate ceremonies / classic weddings

Photo by Taylor Glenn

Just like your wedding cake, your ceremony should be tasty, colorful, rich, layered and sweet.

Let’s be serious here for moment. Your wedding ceremony shouldn’t be a solemn occasion. It should be fun, spirited, inspiring, uplifting, and moving. Just like your wedding cake, your ceremony should be tasty, colorful, rich, layered and sweet.

If you’re like most people getting married, you’re spending some money—maybe a lot of money. But where’s the magic? Where’s the sacred? What part of your wedding day will you two and your family and friends remember most? The cake? The music? The flowers? Well, if the ceremony’s average, ya, sure, those are the things that will be remembered.

But it doesn’t have to be that way. If you’re eloping, why not go all in on your ceremony since that’s what it’s all about? If it’s an intimate gathering of family and friends, why not deliver a ceremony worthy of the trek? If you’re going ALL IN on a big, classic wedding, you better show out and put your ceremony on center stage.

I get it. People get nervous about having a stranger officiate their wedding, I’d be nervous too (not as nervous as I’d be to hand the keys to an amateur), and I can assure you, by the time we reach your wedding day, we’ll be hugging like family, laughing like friends, and people will be asking, which one of you grew up with me.

My Approach

It all starts with your story. Personalized, inspiring, big hearted and light. We’ll laugh and we’ll cry. Together we’ll celebrate your story and connection. Whether it’s just the two of you overlooking Schwabacher’s Landing, your nearest and dearest gathered for an intimate celebration, or the boujeeiest of boujee classics at a private country club, I put the focus of your ceremony right where it needs to be, on the two of you, coming together to celebrate your love and commitment to a future together.

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The Process

Once you reach out, I’ll follow up with an email and we’ll set up a time to talk. This first session is an interview of sorts (Skype, FaceTime, or over the phone), it’s on the house (no charge), you guys vetting me, me learning more about you, your hopes, expectations and desires for your ceremony—oh, and what you don’t want (like cheeseball corniness, lackluster content, and preachy pretentiousness). After I learn about your vision for your day, I send a quote, contract and questionnaire. If you sign, we go big, if you opt out, I wish you all the best. Depending upon how much you put into the questionnaire will determine how many times I need to get you on the phone (this I do individually, not as a couple). It’s fun, you make a friend, and I make two.

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What I bring to the day

My job is to tell your story and tell it well. I wordsmith what you’ve shared with me through the questionnaire, via email, text and phone calls. I create the juicy stuff, the laughter, the tears, the joy, the magic, the inspiration. My job is to honor your story and the power of your connection and the occasion. My mission is to thoughtfully create a ceremony that’s authentic, genuine, moving and worthy of your special day. In the words of a recent couple via text, the day before the big moment, “😂 the ceremony is the least of our worries with you.” There’s a lot to think about and fret over leading up to your wedding day, with me, one promise I can make for certain, is that you don’t have to worry about the ceremony, I’ll be there, and I’ll deliver.

What I wear

Whatever fits the occasion, but it will usually include a tie, shades of blue, and floral, Hawaiian style socks (Father’s Day gifts from my wife and daughter each year). My goal here is to blend in and shine the spotlight on the two of you, so I’ll check in on what you’re wearing, and will try not to wear the same color suit as the groom or out dress the bride : )

Elopement

under 10 people ceremonies start at

$1,500

Intimate

11-25 people ceremonies start at

$2,000

Classic

30+ people ceremonies start at

$2,500

What’s included in all packages:

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Initial meeting (in person conversation via phone or video) and additional communications

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Personalized ceremony: introduction, homily and readings
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Additional options include, but are not limited to: unity candle, community promise blessing, meaning of the rings
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Wedding consultation
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Personal wedding vows or coaching if you intend to write you own
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Legal signature on your marriage license
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Marriage license filing (mailed)

What’s not included:

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I don’t provide sound equipment or mics (I leave that to the sound experts). I’ve got a big voice, so unless you’ve got a sound crew, I wouldn’t sweat this one.
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Though I’m happy to provide some info such as a good place to get flowers on the cheap, I’m not a wedding planner or day-of-coordinator, but I’d highly recommend securing one and I’ve got a couple I’d be happy to introduce you to, these are the TITANS of the wedding industry.
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Photography: I’d be happy to recommend some of the best in the business.
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I do charge a travel fee depending upon distance, hotel rates and whether or not there is good mountain biking nearby (that last part about two wheeled fun was a joke, kind of).

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My standard rates don’t include my attending rehearsals. My attendance at rehearsals includes an additional fee and must be agreed upon in writing at least 30 days in advance. 

My pricing varies depending upon date, planning, wedding size and availability.
Feel free to contact me today for your custom quote.